What behaviors are considered disrespectful in Sri Lanka?

Going to Sri Lanka? Asking this question is spot on! Understanding local customs will make your trip more enjoyable and help you be more welcomed. I've summarized a few key points for you; remember these, and you'll largely avoid any faux pas.

Religious Aspects (Very Important!)

Sri Lanka is a predominantly Buddhist country, so respect for Buddhism is paramount.

Temple Attire: For both men and women, when entering a temple, clothes must cover your shoulders and knees. Wearing shorts, short skirts, or tank tops is absolutely forbidden, and you will be turned away. Many temples have sarongs for sale or rent at the entrance, which can be a temporary solution. Additionally, always remove your shoes and hats before entering a temple.
Attitude Towards Buddha Statues: This is crucial!
- Do not turn your back to Buddha statues for photos: When taking photos with Buddha statues, you must not turn your back to them, as this is considered highly disrespectful. You should stand sideways or face the statue.
- Do not point at Buddha statues with your fingers or feet: This is similar to not pointing at people, but it's even more serious when directed at Buddha statues.
- Do not touch or climb on Buddha statues: Even if you see magnificent Buddha statues, please control your curiosity; observe them from a distance.
- Cover Buddhist tattoos: If you have tattoos of Buddha images or anything related to Buddhism, make sure to cover them with clothing. There have been instances where tourists were deported or got into trouble for exposing Buddha tattoos; this is not a joke.
Respect Monks: Monks hold a very high social status. On buses, people will voluntarily offer them seats. As a tourist, you should show them respect. Especially for women, never initiate physical contact with monks, including avoiding physical contact when handing them something.

Daily Interactions and Body Language

The "Sacred" Head: Like many South Asian countries, Sri Lankans consider the head to be the most sacred part of the body. Therefore, do not casually touch someone's head, even if you find a child adorable, refrain from touching their head.
The "Impure" Left Hand: The left hand is generally considered to be used for impure tasks, such as personal hygiene. Therefore:
- When eating, handing over items, receiving items, or shaking hands, please always use your right hand. If you hand money or an item to someone with your left hand, they might feel you are disrespecting them.
Foot Taboos: The feet are considered the lowest part of the body. Do not point at people or things with your feet, and do not show the soles of your feet to others, especially when sitting; be careful not to prop your feet up too high towards someone.
The Classic "Head Wobble": You will often see Sri Lankans wobble their heads from side to side. This gesture might look like our "no," but it usually means "yes," "okay," or "I understand," indicating affirmation. Don't misunderstand it!

Public Behavior

Avoid Excessive Intimacy: Sri Lankan society is relatively conservative. Couples should ideally avoid overly intimate gestures like hugging or kissing in public. Holding hands while walking is generally fine.
Ask for Permission Before Taking Photos: If you want to photograph locals, especially the elderly and children, it's best to ask for their permission first with a smile and a gesture. Most people are happy to oblige, but asking first is a basic sign of respect. Photography is prohibited in sensitive areas such as military installations and government buildings.
Regarding Tipping: In upscale restaurants and hotels, tipping service staff is quite common. However, it's not mandatory; if you are satisfied with the service, you can give a tip as a token of appreciation.
Poya Day (Full Moon Day): The full moon day of each month is a public holiday in Sri Lanka and an important Buddhist day. On this day, the sale of alcoholic beverages is prohibited nationwide, and many shops will also be closed. If your trip coincides with a Poya Day, be sure to plan accordingly.

In summary, Sri Lankans are very friendly and hospitable, and they are generally tolerant of most unintentional mistakes made by tourists. As long as you approach them with respect for their local culture and maintain a smile, you should encounter very few problems. Have a wonderful trip!